Dating over 40 forum


Chances are, you could meet someone on one of these vacations, especially if they are educational tours or trips with a volunteer component. Do I believe this can be an amazing person, truly worthy of your hopes and dreams? Of course there is always the chance you could meet The One in a supermarket or library. In those circumstances, too, it's hard to know whether the person you meet is actually single. In some cities, clubs for singles do a variety of outings—ranging from a night at the opera to sports competitions.I spoke at one of these clubs last year, and most of the people who attended were 40 .



Meet at a Volunteer Gig If you're looking for someone with a big heart, go to a place where big-hearted people go: Volunteer at a children's hospital, an environmental cleanup, a Habitat for Humanity build, or a political campaign.I hear this all the time: "There are no good men out there"; or this: "There are no good women." Usually the speaker illustrates one of the assertions with a sad or funny dating story that ends either with resignation to single status or with anger at the depressing situation he or she "has to" endure.I listen sympathetically but don't share the conclusions. Mature singles have plenty of great people to choose from; but of course, you have to know where to look.I don't understand why more mature men do not take advantage of spas; they're fabulous opportunities for singles.