There were warning signs all along but I didn't heed them.He only talks about himself, isn't interested in hearing about other people.Why does another person choose a 'narcissist' in the first place? He is shady about things and acts like a recluse says he hates people and he is better and more talented then others.Isn't the flip side of narcissism a sense of total worthlessness? Watches TV all the time and doesn't want to be bothered and has no interest in sex but claims he is normal and also angry temper if you speak to him about this being a problem throws things and then says he is sorry over and over again I tell him how he is wrong but he says everyone else is bothering him wants to be alone in his own world. I was married for 15 years to a man who admitted to exhibiting narcissistic tendencies.We have a young son who loves his dad because he takes him out to do fun stuff, feeds him junk food, never disciplines him. We go to car shows, beach, travel when and what he wants to do.Buy cars (mustangs, trucks, motorcycles) whatever he wants..So when I worked hard and got a salary rise recently, my child support was just reduced.
It is normal to have some low level traits, but if a person has more and more along the spectrum it causes problems for them in relationships and parenting. His mother is extremely narcissistic and I think he just doesn't know any other way to be.
The funny one in the group or the woman who fell for it all.